True Politeness and Etiquette

You might have guessed that a lot has been going on here at BTB-HQ. And that would be a good guess. Most of May we were on the road hopping conferences and events. (I think we covered at least 6 states in May.)

A big project has been preparing for the upcoming Reformation 500 event which is to be held in Boston July 1-4. As I have been studying historical characters, one of the things I have been reading about has been pre-modern etiquette. Modern Americans lack appropriate etiquette, and so I have found it fascinating to see how truly gallant Americans once were.

One of my favorite reads for the year was Martine's Hand-Book of Etiquette and Guide to True Politeness. This is a great book and has shown me so many areas where I could definitely add some refinement.

Martine has some very good quotes in his book dealing with the art of gentlemanliness.

Gentility is neither in birth, manner, nor fashion--but in the mind. A high since of honor--a determination never to take mean advantage of another--an adherence to truth, delicacy, and politeness toward those whom you may have dealings--are the essential and distinguishable characteristics of a gentlemen.

If you have a friend that will reprove your faults and foibles, consider you enjoy a blessing, which the king upon the throne cannot have.

In private, watch your thoughts; in your family, watch your temper; in society, watch your tongue.

This is an absolute must read for anyone who wishes to be a "decent chap or lass". Joshua Titus